Marriage

We have invitations to three weddings posted on our fridge.  We would like to be at all of them, but the only one we will for sure attend is the one that takes place tomorrow in our home congregation.  This one involves a young man from Mississippi who is marrying a sister of our son-in-law.  … Continue reading Marriage

God’s way is still best

“For they have sown the wind, and they shall reap the whirlwind” (Hosea 8:7). Progress and family have never been very compatible.  The economic development of the U.S. south depended on capturing large numbers of African people, who knew more about raising cotton than the plantation owners, bringing them to America and treating them as … Continue reading God’s way is still best

Thanksgiving meditations

Today is Thanksgiving Day here in Canada.  Members of our congregation  will be gathering at church this evening for a big Thanksgiving meal, joined by relatives of some members who have come from a distance, and some of our neighbours.  There will be lots of visiting and a time for singing and testimonies after the … Continue reading Thanksgiving meditations

Family gatherings

[Before I begin, I want to ask a question.  Have any of you found advertisements on this blog that you felt were inappropriate?  WordPress offers free hosting for blogs, but sometimes they will place ads on the blogs to help cover their operating costs.  I never see the ads, so I don't know what might … Continue reading Family gatherings

Why do young people today look so weird?

I remember when duck tail haircuts were all the rage among teenage boys.  I even  remember wearing a duck tail.  For readers younger than 65, a duck tail required hair long enough to be combed straight back and then parted vertically down the back of the head.  It required a lot of Brylcreem to keep … Continue reading Why do young people today look so weird?

Who is the victim here?

A young mother comes into the coffee shop with her three-year-old daughter. - Do you want a doughnut? - No.  I want to go home. - Mommy can buy you a chocolate milk. - No.  I want to go home. Mommy sees some friends at one of the tables and goes to talk to them.  … Continue reading Who is the victim here?

Things that I know about mental illness

1.    I know that mental illness sometimes has external causes.  One common example would be SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) a usually mild form of seasonal depression caused by reduced hours of sunshine in winter.  In the area where I live there are 17 hours between sunrise and sunset at the summer solstice and only 7 … Continue reading Things that I know about mental illness

Self-esteem versus reality

I think of this topic every time I look for a birthday card for one of my grandchildren.  It is difficult to find a suitable card, most are full of language stoking the little darling’s self-esteem.  I would rather choose a goofy card than one that tells them how special, unique and wonderful they are. … Continue reading Self-esteem versus reality

Pet Therapy

But the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb, which he had bought and nourished up: and it grew up together with him, and with his children; it did eat of his own meat, and drank of his own cup, and lay in his bosom, and was unto him as a daughter.  And … Continue reading Pet Therapy

I am not a dog lover

Up until I was nine years old my parents had a black and white collie named Penny.  He was the only dog I ever really loved, a constant companion in my wanderings over the hills and valleys of our southern Saskatchewan farm, and my protector. Later on we had a fox terrier named Trixie.  She … Continue reading I am not a dog lover